I am sure you heard and read about “Positive Thinking”. We would think this is very basic stuff. True.  It is very basic thing. But very hard to implement if you have a default mode of negative thinking. For many people the default mode of thinking (esp in difficult situations) is negative mode. I have written bit more detailed about building optimism in “Romance with Fear” series. Read more on this here => How to Build Optimism . In yesterday blog, I have written